for flower petals perhaps? or tissue?

wedding lust

fav new blog!

i want to stick everything from this site into my wedding! =(

i'm a little teapot...

omg

my mother is trying to drive me to the grave!

1. she still hasn't sent out her portion of the invitations, when i had asked for all of my response cards by YESTERDAY!
2. she asked for an extra 40 invitations, meaning approximately 80 people!
3. she asked mr. zok if we want to suddenly switch to the intercontinental hotel b/c she can suddenly get a good deal on it, even though we've already paid a deposit and people have booked their hotel! bah!!!

love it!

hodge podge

hi y'all. so today i was quite upset. i know that i should be more understanding, but i just feel like because my wedding is the first amongst my friends, i'm going to have to suck up a lot of lack-of-wedding-guest-etiquette, and it's frustrating! and i keep wondering if i'm asking too much of people to know their roles! it's just hard because i can't be arrogant and be like HERE'S A FREAKING ETIQUETTE GUIDE AND EVERYTHING I EXPECT OF YOU but i also don't like feeling like i am getting the short end of the stick. and i'm thoroughly embarassed to mr. zok, because he and his friends are older and more experienced while my friends are newbies and seriously clueless.

anyway, mr. zok and i went on our first marriage counseling session today, and it was interesting. i would go into more detail, but i need to get my grad school work done. so that's all i've got to say about that.